Don't look up! Don't look down! What is Mikoshi Nyudo in the modern world?

This time we will introduce you to Mikoshi Nyudo, who has anecdotes about him all over the country.
In fact, this yokai theory can also be applied to raising children and interacting with people!

(Image from Wiki:http://ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E8%A6%8B%E8%B6%8A%E3%81%97%E5%85%A5%E9%81%93)
 
 

What are the characteristics of Mikoshi Nyuudo?

The higher you look up, the bigger it gets, and eventually
What you are looking up at is turned upside down.
In the past, people would wear hats.
When passing someone on the street, you often only see their feet.
When I looked up to see his face...
It keeps getting bigger and bigger, so you'll never be able to see its face.
And then, if you look up too much, you get stained...
 

What if we meet?

If you encounter this Mikoshi Nyudo
"Mikoshi Nyudo. I foresaw it!"
By casting a certain spell and knocking him down in front of me,
It is said that it disappears in a flash.
 
 

Are they still around today?

I believe that there are actually foresight monks even today.
There are so many people around you that you respect and admire.
I almost worship him. Everything he does is so wonderful.
The more I know, the more I look up more than necessary.
However, that person may be your ``anticipatory monk.''
Facebook has become popular, and photosGood thingTweeter
It's been increasing. Delicious food, friendly friendships
Report on work results. There are various things.
Maybe he is actually successful and wealthy.
But you are you. There is no need to look up to others or make them your goal.
"Miage Nyudo. I foresaw it!"
Chant this in your mind and look at yourself.
If you don't do this, you yourself will become a "anticipatory monk."
Because the life I aimed for after being appointed by Mikoshi Nyudo was
Because it's not the life you envisioned.
And look at the fake you that is not your life
More and more people will look up to you.
Then you have to keep climbing upwards...
I believe that this is the "reality" of Mikoshi Nyudo in modern times.
From a chuunibyou point of view, maybe everyone is like that.
You're just imitating someone else's life (haha)
Well, leaving aside my chuunibyou perspective, what I want to say is
People are people, I am meThat's it.
Admiration and imitationNot badBut isn’t this a departure from what I’m good at and my dreams?
Perhaps we need to once again block out information from the outside world and think about this issue.
If someone is just making you feel rushed with your life, there's no need to rush at all!
It's your life after all!
 
 

As a parenting technique

Don't look up, don't look down.
What I learned from Mikoshi Nyudo this time can be applied to raising children.
In simple termsKeep your child's perspectiveThat is what it means.
Specifically, what should I do?
This is because there is actually a difference in height.
If possible, physically make eye contact
Let's squat down and talkLook your child in the eye.
He grabbed me by the shoulders and told me about his children."listen".
It's not "communicating" or "listening" which is a typo of "listen." It's called "listening attentively" or "active listening."
It's not just a parenting technique.
I heard that when listening to someone, it's good to turn your body towards them.
When I tried this with my children, they started telling me a lot of things.
As I listened to them, they started to listen to me in return.
I think this is communication.
If I look down on someone thinking they are a child, the child will surely try to look up to me.
I have to keep acting in a way that makes me appear bigger and bigger to the children.
In other words,Learning from ChildrenThis is not our attitude,
Children also try to be "good kids" without understanding what their parents are saying.
This is very stressful for both of you.
When children try to listen, they think of words,
When you finally manage to communicate this, a sense of absolute trust will emerge.
So, even if it's a little inconvenient, squat down firmly and make eye contact when you speak.
Finishing housework quickly is much more important than not being late for a meeting.
Please speak kindly and listen carefully.
The anticipatory monk will disappear in a flash.
 
If we reorganize it again

• Crouch down to make eye contact
• Listen to your child instead of telling them
• Make eye contact
• Body facing forward

On a side note...

Well, as I was writing this, I thought,
This is the kind of thing you would see in a communication training session for new members of the workforce.
 
I wonder if there are many working adults who can't do this...
Could it be my boss?! (lol)... Could it be that he is Mikoshi Nyudo?!
 
 
It's best to avoid such bosses as soon as possible.
If you look up, you'll tip over! (laughs)